Problem by Jen: married lifestyle…?
how do married couples preserve time for each other w/ all the jobs of lifestyle? how do married partners retain their relationships fresh and entertaining and loving and passionate? (not just thier intercourse existence but the general realtionship). when u were about to get married what was ur largest problem?
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Reply by abc
fortunately married couples MAKE time for every single other ….. respect one particular yet another, laugh with every single other……….they elevate every single other up when a single is down they perform as a group, yet locate time for their individuality as properly………
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Are you kidding?? Married couples pretty much dont get alot of time together, alone and all romantic and all that. That was “dating”, your now “married”, 2 different things! Life isn’t all joyfull bliss, life is hard sometimes.So just get over it and move on.
You make your marriage AND your partner a priority. Little things mean alot and keep things fresh and new! MY biggest concern when I got married was making sure my spouse knew how much I loved him and that being with him was awesome. We do lots of things together that cost little or no money…talking about our hopes and dreams,picnics and hikes and cuddling, planning our next adventure!
My husband and I TRY to get away for one night every few months….even if it’s across town in a Hampton Inn. We just like to get away from the house….it excites us because at the hotel there is nothing to clean and no child to bust in on us!!
But, as far as being concerned about it prior to marriage….I wasn’t….because I had no idea what married life would be like living in the same house. I just went through it blindly. It is hard to make time together, but now being together for almost four years we also enjoy our moments alone!! Like right now…he is watching tv and I’m in the spare room on Yahoo! Answers!!! It’s not like this every night, but you just go with the flow and realize you don’t need to be attached at the hip just because you said “I do”.
ABC is right.. You have to communicate and take time to make time. You will grow together and not grow apart. Marriage is not the end but a new beginning.
My biggest concern has always been not to let the sun set on my anger… translation… If we are upset we discuss it and try our best to reconcile before we go to sleep. try it it works…
the biggest concern was how to keep the flame going and ive come up with that you cant keep the flame going if every time you flick the lighter the b**** blows it out (sorry that goes for men and women) i had a moment lol whether she responds to me or not i keep doing what i did to get her in the first place for me cause when i leave her i will still have that fire in me to give and enjoy with someone else hope i helped
Im almost 25 and Ive been married for 3 years, but we lived together for 8 yrs and we have a 7 yr old together and a 16 month old. My husband is 28. We love to spend time together, He works during the day, I work in the evening PT, and most evenings we spend watching television or movies together. On the weekends we go out to lunch and dinner with our kids, and always have fun. We dont stay at home together bored, because thats what gets annoying…when we get bored, we get mad, and then we get frustrated with eachother and our kids. But when we go out and have fun every weekend, or rent a movie or go bowling, fishing, the park, feed the ducks, etc…we are happiest.
We have one night out with eachother and our kids, and one night with our own friends atleast three times a month. We enjoy doing the same things so its always fun for us. but not all men want to spend time with their family or wife, or visa versa so…you both have to have that in common.
Like my bestfriend hates spending time with her husband, and always wants to hang out with her friends, but she was never meant to be a house wife or married in the first place. (Shes not the faithful type.) But I am the faithful type and my husband also, so far… so unless our personality changes or temptation arises …we are both happy with just eachothers companionship.
He also texts me every two to three hours and calls me twice a day from work just to talk to me. We always have lunch together during his lunch break three times a week. He enjoys his family and thats what makes a marriage work…when you both enjoy eachothers company…and no one elses besides your children of course…